Saturday, January 16, 2016

Regis Cebu Leadership, GENOGRAM by Leader Melchor Castro Daclan

Regis Cebu Leadership
Leader Melchor Castro Daclan

GENOGRAM (Revision)





MELCHOR CASTRO DACLAN



Father's side

My great grandfather Jose Copleros Dionson from Iloilo City who is the father of my grandmother Yuliana Gillangala Dionson was labeled GENIUS and it was confirmed by his daughter Yuliana. He was a multi-talented person and has the passion in invention.

Although he was just a High School Graduate but he is excellent writing, most especially in stage plays. He himself is a stage play actor, singer, plays violin and he manufactured wind and strings musical instruments.

In his generation he was very popular in designing and manufacturing guns.

He rides Harley Davisson Big Bike.  He is also a famer, black smith and a body builder.

He was in Cebu in 1942 - 1945 during WWII. Then he moved together with his family in Davao City, where he practiced his talents in musical instruments together with his children. His children received scholarship because of their talents in music except my grandmother Yuliana Gillangala Dionson who stayed in Cebu after she married my grandfather Luis Labandero Daclan Sr.

Jose Copleros Dionson has a very strict and straight forward personality.

Because of cardiovascular disease he died at age of 70 due to cardiac arrest while he was lifting weights.

My great grandmother Regina Gellangala Gintolio who is the mother of my grandmother Yuliana Gillangala Dionson was a very beautiful woman who was raise in the sugar cane farm in Negros Occidental. In spite of poverty she was remembered as very humble and loving mother. She spent most of her time nurturing his children.

My grandmother Yuliana Gillangala Dionson who is the mother of my father Luis Dionson Daclan Jr., she was very intelligent woman in his generation but not a bright as her father Jose. She develops several talents in her childhood like cooking, housekeeping, reading books. Her leadership started when she became a mother, she was very disciplinarian to her children. When she became a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, she was called to serve as Relief Society President.
She is only up to 2nd year in College, major education – in (USJR) San Jose Recoletos, Cebu City. In her early education her favorite subject is English.
Later part in her life she became USA Citizen together with her husband.
They are five children in the family, her siblings are the following:




1.     Yulliana "Aling" Dionson Daclan – my grand mother

2.     Francisco "Toto" Dionson
a.     Musician
b.    High School Level -  in Davao
3.     Gervasio Dionson
a.     Musician
b.    Did not get married
4.     Jorge Dionson
a.     Married
5.     Ricardo Dionson
a.     Musician
b.    reformed from NPA (New People Army) in the Mountain of Davao
c.     Murmured after the amnesty during Pres. Ferdinand E. Marcus.

My father Luis Dionson Daclan Jr., was a very passionate soldier, being the top number one in his 3rd Class in Army Training among 476 cadets, number one in Drills and Command, number one in Army Training Athletics, top number two in his Non Commissioned Officers' Advance Course Training Class 34, he became very respected but he remains humble and generous man. He was outstanding in many leadership capacities most especially in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints such as a Bishop, Stake High Councilor, Stake Presidency 2nd Counselor, High Priest Group Leader, and Cebu Philippines Temple 2nd Counselor. He also gained several technical skills and became certified Automotive Mechanic and Refrigeration and Air-con Technician.
They are 12 children in the family, his siblings are the following:
1.     Verginia "Bebie" Daclan Regalado
a.     3 Children
b.    College level in Education
c.     Telecommunication Graduate in USJR (2years course)
d.    Telecom Operator – in DXRT Radio Station
e.     Graduate of Cooking
f.     Personality – Kind, loving, friendly and caring
g.    Ordinance Worker in Cebu Philippines Temple
h.     All her children are working abroad
2.     Luis "Jun" Daclan Jr. – my father
a.     1st year college in Mindanao State University – General Education. Did not graduate because he joined Military and served for 22 years and 6 month. Retired with the rank of 2nd lieutenant.
b.    Got 9 Children: 8 served on a mission (1 chose to Temple Married)
3.     Dioscoro "Dudy" Daclan
a.     Mechanical Engineering Graduate – from USJR
b.    Furniture business owner
c.     Migrated in New Zealand together with his family
4.     Silbia Daclan Entila
a.     High School Graduate
b.    The biological mother of the Emmanuel Daclan the adopted son of the family
5.     Rolando Daclan
a.     He is just like his grandfather Jose in terms of strictness and straightforward personality
b.    Migrated to USA
6.     Lorna Daclan Buchling
a.     High School Graduate
b.    Married to her German pen pal
c.     Migrated to Germany
7.     Hazel Daclan Valdez
a.     Graduated in the College of Pharmacy in USJR
b.    Freelance Saleswoman
8.     Sergio "Boy" Daclan
a.     Driver and Auto Mechanic
b.    Migrated to USA
9.     Luis "Amay" Daclan III
a.     Freelance salesman
b.    He is just like his grandfather Jose in terms of strictness and straightforward personality
10.  Ana Daclan Cayabyab
a.     She is an Industrial Engineer by profession,  graduated from Cebu Institute of Technology
b.    Served as Full-time Missionary in Philippines Baguio Mission
c.     Separated with her husband
d.    Migrated in Canada together with her children
11.  Maria Stella Daclan Mandiadi
a.     The Brightest Child in the Family
b.    She claimed to have photographic memory in elementary and graduated valedictorian.
c.     High School Scholar in University of the Philippines - Deliman
d.    She served as Full-time Missionary in Philippines Bacolod Mission
e.     Became graduated Architecture in Cebu Institute of Technology and became a license architect.
12.  Adopted Child – Emmanuel Daclan
a.     He is the biological son of my Tita Silbia Daclan
b.    Commerce Graduate in Cebu Institute of Technology
c.     Served as Full-time Missionary in Olongapo Philippines Mission


Mother's side

My great grandmother Igleseria Barrio ESOTO, she is the mother of my grandmother Lourdes "Doding" Esoto Capuyan Castro. Remembered as thrifty, she loves to save for rainy season. She is inclined to running her own business in jewelries, fabrics, Tabaco and fruits. She is very successful in buy and sell and trading. She is very strict and disciplinarian. She is also talented in sawing and farming.

My great grandfather Sergio CASTRO; he is the father of my grandfather Mariano Matugas Castro.
He is a rich farmer who owned plenty of agricultural land in the mountain of Masaba, Danao City. Before he died he divided his properties to his children.
  
My grandfather Mariano Matugas Castro, who is the father of my mother Carolita Kapuyan Castro Daclan, was remembered as very friendly person and because of that he was elected as Barangay Captain in Masaba, Danao City. He was excellent in public speaking. His source of income is from farming and riding TARTANILLA in Colon and Carbon in Cebu City. He is talented in Cooking, Singing, Dancing and he is a very good adviser, most especially to his friends who faced problems.


My grandmother Lourdes "Doding" Esoto Capuyan Castro, who is the mother of my mother Carolita Kapuyan Castro Daclan, very talented in making dress, her work of art is beautiful as she is. She is also very disciplinarian to her children and grandchildren.
She became very weak and died due to her accident. She slipped at the door steep and knocks her head on the floor that caused her brain damage.

My mother Carolita Kapuyan Castro Daclan, was very successful in training me together with my siblings to eat fruits and vegetables every day and to take responsibilities in our young age. Each of us performs some tasks in the house before we will leave going to school. While she was a religious woman, she is also skillful in many capacities. She became hair stylist in Coring Beauty Parlor, All around beautician in Saloon de Rose, Area Manager in Prudential Life where she started as Agent. She is also very successful as Real Estate Agent.
She is very active in the church as Relief Society President and Temple Ordinance Worker then she became Assistant to the Matron.
She is the second out of 7 children in the family, her siblings are the following:
1)     Fe Castro Auza, she got three children, she is High School Graduate in the University of the Visayas and she a plain housewife taking care her children while her husband working abroad.

2)     Carolita Castro Daclan – my mother

3.     Elsa Castro Trees Reyes, Accountancy/ Banking and Finance graduate from the University of San Carlos
a.     Work in William Lines – as  Teller 
b.    Real Estate Broker
c.     5 children
4.     Jocelyn Castro Fernandez (2nd Husband Family Name: Retardo)
a.     Married at the age of 16 during her 1st Husband
b.    Dress maker
c.     Business woman
d.    2 Children during 1st Husband and 4 Children during 2nd Husband
5.     Elvira Castro Tolentino
a.     Attended Commerce in University of the Visayas
b.    4 Children
c.     Beautician
d.    Work abroad as Beautician
6.     Nelson Castro
a.     Automotive mechanic
b.    9 Children
7.     Eugene "Gleen" Castro
a.     With high self confidence
b.    Martial artist
c.     Salesman – Car top sellers in America
d.    Got plenty of children from different women.


Me and my siblings, we are nine children in the family.

1.     Michael Castro Daclan is my elder brother who is excellent in public speaking, he became Toastmaster Speaking Competition Champion, and he became Toastmaster Fedex Chapter President.
He is a graduate of BS Computer Technology from USJR (University of San Jose Recolitos).
He is talented in dancing, drawing.
He is very successful in his employment; he was the Operations Manager in Fedex and currently working as Account Manager in Traxtech.
His personality is just like our great grandfather Jose who is strict and straight forward. On the other hand he is also kind and friendly.
With regards to health he experience hypertension and heart enlargement.


2.     I am Melchor Castro Daclan and I am the most sports active in the family, I was in Karate-do, Kick Boxing, Swimming, Track & Field, Table Tennis and Volleyball. Most of the awards the I received are from swimming. I am a natural leader in school I am always the class president and in the church I am always the quorum president and I am currently serving as a bishop.
I am a graduate of Political Science from the University of Cebu, Entrepreneurship from Brigham Young University of Hawaii, Cebu Philippines Satellite Campus, and International Communication from University of Southern Philippines.  Currently attending MBA Regis in Ateneo De Manila University and aspiring to graduate by 2017.

3.     My sister Mae Castro Daclan Aban, is the third child in the family, she is married to Ricardo Aban, and she is a graduate of Business Administration from Saint Theresa's University.

4.     My sister Mariel Castro Daclan Villarete, is the fourth child in the family, she is married to Spencer Villarete, and she is a graduate of Business Administration in University of San Carlos. Together with her husband she runs a Kumon Franchise and Tarpaulin Business in Consolation Cebu.

5.     My brother Minandro Castro Daclan, the fifth child in the family, a very hyperactive child in the family, a good dancer, choreographer, very competitive person, brave, friendly, kind and gentle to anyone.
He is a graduate of Business Administration in University of San Jose Recolitos. He served his mission in Philippines Davao Mission.

6.     My sister Minerva Castro Daclan Cesar, the sixth child in the family, a very intelligent woman who served her mission in Honolulu Visitor Center Hawaii, attended in Industrial Engineering in University of San Carlos.

7.     My brother Marco Castro Daclan, the seventh child in the family, he is very good in running small enterprises. He is candidate to become a self-made millionaire.

8.     My brother Marluie Castro Dalan, the eight child in the family, he is very in-tuned with entrepreneurship also running a small enterprises and candidate to become a self-made millionaire.

9.     My sister Marykris Castro Daclan Dela Cruz, the ninth child in the family, she is fun of attending beauty contest and won the crown as Miss Mactan Airbase.


What is the new learning?       
Genogram is a motivating tool in achieving success in life and understanding of who really I am. I am now confident to say to the world that I Melchor Castro Daclan, I am who I am and I am unique person.

Several of the information that I got are impressive such as being nationalistic and patriotic in the country, many of my ancestors where serving valiantly in the Philippines Army, most especially during WWII.

I am also humbled and flattered when my poor great grandfather Jose Copleros Dionson was labeled as a GENIUS.  


What is the relation to what I already know?
I am very happy to know of the noble example of my ancestors it is building my personality and to be courageous in facing all my trials and difficulties in life. I know that all those challenges can help to become a better person, each of those items are important and require for us to know how to understand our people.
If we want to lead as the Savior did, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles says, we must realize that before we can build anything, we must build people.

What have I done, am doing, will be doing for this topic?
I can say that I am on the process of becoming great! There are still a lot of songs that remains unsung within me. This genogram is my personal reflection, I am doing according to what I know but because of genogram I totally realized that there are still great things that I need to do in life.

The best is yet to come.



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