Thursday, October 29, 2015

MM Leadership Genogram by Leigh Abarquez

Leighan Katrina Sitoy-Abarquez
Leadership – MM


I.             Genogram – Dissecting my Family Tree


A.   Grandparents' (Father Side)


My Dad's father, Adelino Baguio Sitoy, is the eldest in a family of 9 children. My great grandparents were both teachers by profession.


(1)     Adelino: During his student years, Adelino graduated top of his class, and served president of his college and law school student councils. He was also the editor-in-chief of his college and law school paper. Adelino is a graduate of Bachelor of Laws, Cum Laude, at San Carlos University – Cebu City. He received his Masters of Laws at the University of Southern Philippines in Cebu. After passing the bar, he served as a youth leader of Sergio Osmena and thereafter, became the youngest city fiscal in Cebu. In his 40s, he served as an Assemblyman and Provincial Board Member of Cebu in the late 1970s-1980s. He also served as the Dean of University of Cebu Law School which he co-founded sometime 2003.  University of Cebu then produced 2 bar topnotchers during Adelino's term. Adelino was also a professor of business law in the University of San Carlos and University of Southern Philippines. In so far as private practice, Adelino established the law firm Sitoy, Go and Go Associates in early 1980s, among his law partners were Augusto Go (owner of University of Cebu). He was also once a law partner of Hon. Hilario Davide. Retiring from private law practice, Adelino is currently the Municipal Mayor of the Municipality of Cordova, where has been serving as such for 6 years to date.

(2)   Beatriz: Beatriz graduated with a degree in Education. She was a teacher in profession, and became the principal of a school in Cebu before she retired. Lola Betty has 4 children, 2 are nurses, and 2 are teachers.

(3)   Celedonio: Celedonio is a doctor by profession. He also served as a Municipal Mayor of Cordova Cebu for nine years. Tatay Celsi has 3 children, 1 is a nurse, and 1 is a licensed arhictect.

(4)   Denisa: Denisa is a retired nurse. She practiced nursing in Ohio, USA, where she was the chief nurse in a reputable hospital in that area. Lola Denisa has 3 children, 2 are engineers and 1 is a nurse.

(5)   Elmo: Elmo is a chemical engineer and placed first in the licensure exams. He was an executive of a multinational company until he retired. Lolo Elmo has 4 children, 2 are engineers, 1 a neurologist, and 1 a nurse.

(6)  Franco: Franco is a civil engineer by profession, and was providing consultancy services to various companies in Cebu until his retirement. Tiyo Franco has 3 children, 1 an engineer, 1 a nurse, and 1 an architect.

(7)   Gaspar: Gaspar is a civil engineer by profession. He practiced as such for quite some time before he reverted to being a businessman until his death. Dodong Gaspar has 2 children, both graduates of Mass Communications.

(8)   Hilardo: Hilardo is an architect by profession, and was providing consultancy services to several companies in Cebu. Lolo Hily has 2 children, 1 a nurse, and another a graphic designer.

(9)   Imelda: Imelda is a retired nurse. She practiced nursing in Saudi Arabia for quite some time, and went back to be a company nurse in a prominent five-star resort/hotel in Cebu until her retirement. Lola Melda has 2 children, 1 is a nurse and the other one still in school.




My Dad's mother, Rosemary Gutardo Consular, is the third child amongst a family of 4 children.  My great grandparents had humble beginnings, and worked as fishermen/agricultural workers in our town in Leyte. Unlike my grandfather's family, not all of my grandmother's siblings were able to finish schooling.


(1)     Salita: Salita finished second year in college majoring in Commerce. Nanay has 3 children. 1 is a retired flight stewardes at a HK-based airline company.

(2)   Oldong: Because of financial constraints, Oldong was only able to finish high school at a public school in Leyte.

(3)   Rosemary: My grandmother had a degree in Home Economics. She was a beauty. My grandfather fell in love with this college muse. Lola was a house wife by vocation until her death in 2001.

(4)   Oloy: Lola Oloy graduated College with a degree in Pharmacy. She landed first in the Pharmacy Licensure exams. She practiced said profession until her retirement.


B.   Grandparents (Mother Side)


My Mom's father is the youngest among a family of five children. Papa Mike, as we call him, is a native of San Miguel Bulacan and related to the de Jesus', Buencaminos and Siojos of that area. I was told that my great grand fathers were Chinese mestizo merchants in Luzon. Papa Mike migrated to Cagayan de Oro City after World War II because my grandmother was from that area.


(1)     Emilio: Emilio majored in Commerce and was a businessman until his retirement.

(2)   Guadalupe: Guadalupe graduated with a degree in Commerce and majored in Accountancy. She was a practicing accountant until her demise.

(3)   Zolila: Like Emilio, Zoila majored in Commerce and was a businesswoman until her retirement.

(4)   Irene: Unlike other siblings who majored in commerce and were entrepreneurs until their retirement/death, Irene was a licensed nurse and worked as such until her retirement

(5)   Miguel: Miguel graduated with a degree in commerce, and majored in Accountancy. He was a licensed accountant. He also served as a Dean of Accountancy at Xavier University in Cagayan de Oro. He was also the General Manager of CEPALCO, Cagayan de Oro's electric company until his retirement. After his retirement, he ventured into a quite successful rattan business, and was one of the major exporter of rattan and woodwork furniture in the Philippines then. They exported furniture to Asia, Europe and some parts of the USA.


My Mom's mother, Natividad, is the second among a family of five children. Mama Naty, as we call her, is related to the Pimentels of the Cagayan de Oro.


(1)     Lino: Lolo Lino is a licensed medical doctor, and practiced as such until his retirement.

(2)   Natividad: Mama Naty was on her third year at University of Sto. Tomas taking up Medicine, when World War II broke. She was not able to finish medicine, and was thus a housewife by vocation until her demise.

(3)   Benjamin: Lolo Ben was a practicing lawyer until his death.

(4)   Josefina: Like Lola Oloy, Lola Josefina was also a licensed pharmacist.

(5)   Lourdes: Like Lolo Lino, Lola Lourdes graduated with a degree in Medecine also at the University of Sto. Tomas. She is a licensed physician and anesthesiologist in New York, where she resides.


C.   Parent's (Father Side)


My father is the only legitimate child in his family. My grandfather has several illegitimate children, whom I do not wish to name in this genogram, as I am not certain of their names, and family history (I hope that is OK).


Daddy comes from Cordova Cebu and is currently the Provincial Board Member of the 6th District of Cebu Province (comprising of Cordova, Consolacion and Mandaue City). He also sits as the Majority Floor Leader of the Sangguniang Panlalawigan. He sits as the Chairperson of the committees on Differently Abled Persons; and on Complaints & Investigations. He is the Vice Chairperson of the committees on Provincial & Municipal Properties; Laws & Review on Ordinances; Education; Human Rights & Labor; Tourism and International Affairs; Cooperatives and Senior Citizens.


Daddy has a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science degree from the University of San Carlos Cebu. His post graduate studies include: Masters in Journalism (UP System); Masters in Public Administration (UP System); Masters in Management (UP System); Masters in Business Economics (UA&P); Project Management (Center for International Education/Cambridge); Doctor of Philosophy in Business Administration (University of San Carlos). WOOOW


He also teaches business subjects and full professor at the University of San Carlos and Center for International Education. He is a part-time professor teaching business subjects at the University of Cebu, Cebu Normal University and University of Southern Philippines.


He won an award as Outstanding Philippine Mayor and Outstanding Philippine legislator. He served as Jaycees President for Cebu for several years and was recognized as an Outstanding Jaycee President. During his student years, Dad served as editor-in-chief of his college and law school papers, and like Lolo, was also a student council president.


He served as the Municipal Mayor of Cordova Cebu for three terms in 1998-2007 before he was elected as Provincial Board Member.


My dad is a stroke survivor—had his first stroke when he was in the late 30s and his third stroke a week or so after I passed the bar examinations in 2008. He can't walk well without his cane—but that did not stop him from pursuing his passion. He had a heart attack December last year, and survived after bringing himself at the hospital at the opportune moment. He had his quintuple heart bypass 2 days after New Year of 2015. That still did not stop him for pursuing his passion.


He is running for Municipal Mayor of Cordova for the 2016 elections against his half-sister.


D.   Parent's Side (Mother)


My Mom, Ma. Cristina (Tina) is the 7th amongst a family of ten children! This is quite ironic, because she married an only child.


(1)     Antonio: Graduated with a degree in Agriculture. He was a businessman and sold beautiful orchids and plants, and a mushroom grower/supplier as well. He has two children, John is an executive in a pharma company, and Ate Gina an executive of a prominent five star hotel in Dubai.

(2)   Emannuel: Tito Babes graduated with a degree in Commerce, and following the footsteps of Papa Mike, he was a businessman as well. He has two children. Kuya Arnie, who died very young when he figured in a car accident, and Ann. They are residing in the US.

(3)   Luis: Tito Louie, is a gifted child, as we call him in the family. He graduated Valedictorian in Grade School and High School at Xavier University in Cagayan de Oro City. He graduated Magna Cum Laude at the Ateneo de Manila University with a degree in Industrial Psychology. He was also a Departmental Awardee for Behavioral Science at Ateneo. He practiced psychology in the US, and was a consultant for several US companies until his retirement.

(4)   Ramon: Tito Monching has a commerce degree at Xavier University. He was also a businessman, and owned several bakeries and cake shops in Cagayan de Oro until his demise. Tito has two children, one is a seasoned banker, and another a businesswoman--- makes and sells designer cakes for special occasions.

(5)   Corazon: Tita Cherry is a graduate of accountancy. She is a businesswoman, and one of her business included exporting home furnishing and decors to other parts of the Globe. She has two children, one is an executive for a pharma company, and another a licensed accountant and is a head of a cooperative consultancy firm.

(6)  Rafael: Tito Bobo graduated from Xavier University with a degree in agriculture. He worked as an executive of a brewery company until his retirement. Tito has 4 children. Two are licensed nurses, one is a businessman/musician, and another an executive of a industrial company.

(7)   Tina: My Mom initially took up Food Technology at University of Sto. Tomas, but because of homesickness, she transferred to Cebu (living with relatives) and graduated with a degree in Mass Communications at St. Theresa's College. For a while she worked as staff of Congresswoman Liling Roa, and as an HR Head for a Cebu Teleco Distributor owned by my aunt. For the rest of her years, she was a housewife by vocation.

(8)   Dennis: Tito Dennis has a degree in commerce/accountancy at Xavier University. He is also a businessman. Tito has 4 children, 1 is a medical technician, another is still taking pre-med, two are graduates of business management.

(9)   Carmencita: Tita Chichi graduated college with a degree in Psychology at Xavier University. She is working as an executive for a telecom company in the US. Tita has one child, who is currently taking BS Math in the US.


My grandparents (Mom side) were not politicians, but they were known philanthropists in our locality until their demise. For example, we were exposed to Sunday soup feeding sessions as well as tutoring sessions to street children and mothers.


E.   Siblings


We are four in the family. I am the second child. I graduated college with a degree in Economics at Ateneo de Manila, and thereafter had my Juris Doctor degree from the same school.


My Ate is a licensed architect and licensed Interior Designer. She graduated architecture from University of San Carlos Cebu and Interior Design at the Philippine School of Interior Design in Makati. She is a Senior Designer in one foreign design firm in Makati.


My brother graduated college with a degree in Multi-Media Arts at De La Salle University – College of St. Benilde, and has worked as a graphic designer/branding for a global advertising firm. He recently took a break from the advertising world, and went back to Cebu to pursue law. While taking up law, he has also ventured into business and is a retailer of a prominent sports shoe company.


The youngest in the family graduated with a degree in Film at De La Salle University – College of St. Benilde. She has been actively involved in the production of various indie films directed by renowned film makers—Brillante Mendoza, Joey Reyes etc.


I have a half-brother who is almost the same age as my youngest sister. He just graduated from College with a degree in Management Engineering. He is now working as an advertising/analyst for a multinational advertising company.



II.           What does this mean to Me as an Individual?


(a) What is my birth position in my family? I am the second in the family. However, my Ate is only 1 year older than me. So, I can say that the "middle child syndrome" may not apply to me. They say, I'm quite more outspoken and firm than Ate. Ate is quite timid, so in terms of imposing discipline to the younger siblings, it would seem that I would take the lead than Ate.

(b) What values do I hold important in my life? How do these affect major decisions and life directions? When my parents separated (and went back together) several times, and we were "forced" to be independent, and to stand on our two feet—I made it a point that I value my siblings and my family. I value the concept of team work especially amongst my siblings. I will fight for them, and will not let anyone hurt them. I instill (and want to continue to instill) that mentality to my two children. That value of looking after each other's backs is an important value that I want my girls to hold close. Also, in my hierarchy of values, family comes as a priority. Thus, in my decision making, I always see to it that I consult the opinions of my parents, my siblings—and now my husband and my children. I need to get their buy-ins first before I make major decisions.

(c) What are my struggles? What are my areas of improvement? My parents' marriage is not exactly a bed of roses. There were several instances when they separated and went back together. There were also indiscretions my father committed, which hurt the family. I've been annulled as well. I got married early, and the marriage was chaotic, abusive, and emotional/physically draining. So, if there's one struggle I have been trying to contend to—is that courage to TRUST people. I have always had trust issues, and separation anxiety. I feared getting hurt, so the tendency for me is to not open up myself that much so as not to be vulnerable. This "trust issues" is something that I'm working out to overcome, and I guess—finding the right husband/partner in life helped me a lot—my husband allowed me to trust in love, in life, and in God.

(d) What are my strengths? I guess, one lesson I got from my Dad is that humility to admit faults, and to do everything to make amends. Daddy is far from perfect, but he is of those few men who can say "sorry" to your face, and try so hard to make up to you. That's one trait I learned from him. One strength also my natural inclination to emphatize with people, that conscious effort to look and analyze things, by putting myself in that person's shoes. I suppose, that strength enables me to be a good listener and adviser, fit for my profession.


III.          Current Family


(a) In what stage of family development is my family? For my current family, we are at the Parental Years—we have 2 children, both girls. Eldest is 12 years old and is in middle school, the younger one is 4 years old and is kindergarten. Mine is not the typical family set-up. I've been annulled from my first marriage, but our daughter is living with me—my eldest. My eldest grew up and was raised by my 2nd husband—since my ex-husband and I separated when my eldest was just 3 years old.

(b) To whom am I closest in the family? What is the nature of our relationship? I'm closest to my husband. He is my best friend. We met in law school—and he was my classmate. He was my best study buddy, my supporter, avid fan, and troubleshooter then, and up until now. We have fights, of course, but there's never a day that will pass that we don't fix the problem. In this marriage, no one gets to sleep unless we discuss the problem and promise to solve the problem in the soonest possible time. We are a team, actually.

(c) To whom am I least close in my family? What is the nature of this relationship? None. The four of us—are very close. We even sleep in the same room! Weekends are strictly family time. While during workweek—the girls understand that sometimes we stay late in the office—but they usually wait for us and we put them to sleep nevertheless—sometimes I call them my "security guards" because they wait up for us!

(d) What am I proud about my family and being part of this group of people? I am proud of my husband, he is very hard working and passionate about his work. He is a practicing Intellectual Property Lawyer for a multinational law firm, and I'm proud of what he has achieved. He is a good provider, and a loyal husband, and a family man. He loves the girls—we call them, our powerpuff girls to bits. I am also very proud of our powerpuff girls—they are not materialistic, they are quite understanding for their age, they respect and care for us and for others, they are God-fearing, they have a flair for music and arts, and very intelligent… not to mention very pretty.


I am closest to my Dad. My Dad has been my rock, my mentor, my provider, my adviser. He is the positive in my pessimistic/untrusting tendencies. As I've grown older—and wiser, my relationship with Dad has mature to one that is between a daughter to father, to that of peer to peer, lawyer to lawyer—but, of course, when I'd feel the pressure of motherhood or work—I'd still cry to him—and instead of giving me a hug—he would just say, "learn to roll with the punches!" I'm proud and thankful that I get to share that openness and nurturing relationship with Dad. He has that same relationship too with the other siblings.

(e) What is often my role in my family? Mom/lawyer/yaya/cook/guidance councilor/coach/beautician/doctor/stage mother/motivator/fan

(f)  What stressor affect my family now? How difficult are they to handle? Sickness and illnesses as well as pressures at work. Well frankly, my husband and I are tag-teams—and we understand the need to make provisions in case of sickness, and time management in case of work load. So, knowing that I have a partner who understands my stressors, and acknowledges those to be his stressors as well, kind of makes it a lot easier to bear.

(g) What resources are we using to maintain family equilibrium? Time management, strict at that really helps. Prayers and making God the center of our lives, help even more.

(h)  To whom am I least close in my family? What is the nature of this relationship? I'm least close to my younger brother, perhaps because he is the quiet/introverted type.


IV.         Growing up in my family


(a)    What was the kind of family environment in which I grew up?  My parents were very supportive of me, yet they were also quite strict. They are the ones who will not hesitate to talk to the school principal and make known your indiscretions and allow for the school to impose disciplinary sanctions to you, if need be. However, one good thing about my parents is that—they've allowed us to make our own decisions, but with a caveat that if you make a mistake, own up to it. So, there are a lot of times when I did make stupid mistakes, wrong decisions—and I've learned from those, and learned to pick up the pieces with or without my parents' help. Also, added comfort is that even if we make mistakes, we know that our parents will not judge and will continue to support us with our other endeavors.


However, I could not expect that from my grandfather. Since Dad was in politics for a long time and his earnings as town mayor were insufficient to send us to good schools—my grandpa (who was then a practicing litigation lawyer, and had a very lucrative practice in Cebu) provided money to send us to school. He was a tough person. He was very difficult to please. He was a perfectionist. Although he was quite generous in providing for our needs—he will really make us feel as though we are indebted to him for all that he has given us—he will make us feel like we have an "utang na loob". We tried so hard to do well in school, otherwise, he will make you feel as though you are not worthy of his generosity. It was a difficult pill to swallow for us siblings. Yes, Lolo gave us a comfortable life (materially), but he was not your typical Lolo who would give moral and emotional support. Again, he was tough. Speaking with him was like being cross-examined in court.

(b)   What activities did we do regularly?  How did we celebrate holidays and special occasions?  We eat out a lot. We love food. Dad would always say that majority of our earnings go to make restaurant owners rich! Maybe our eating-out was a venue for us to talk to each other outside of our busy schedule. We celebrate special occasions, also eating out!

(c)    What did I consider turning points in my familys development?  How did these affect me?  When my dad made a "right turn"— that affair (I won't elaborate). That affected us so much. Hurt my mom. Hurt the children. However, I became stronger because of that. I became wiser with my decisions. I also become more courageous in fighting for my Mom, and my siblings. The affair ended, that's for sure. But, that thought me the value of forgiveness, of asking for forgiveness, of the possibility for people to change, and of course, #mayforever.

(d)   How did my family cope with the stressors that we all faced? Prayers.

(e)   Who was/is the leader in my family?  Who wields power in my family?  How is this used?  My Dad is our leader—always will be. He leads not by "demanding" (unlike my Lolo). He leads by example. He brings us with him at the office, in the field, meetings with investors etc. I was witness to how passionate he is/was with his work, and that inspires me until now. He is a visionary, a troubleshooter, a proactive leader, a doer. We follow him, not because he tells us to, he makes us think by showing alternatives—and trusts us enough to allow us to make mistakes, and gives us the encouragement to help us pick up the lost pieces after the "damage"!

(f)     What was considered important in my family?  What was I often taught to remember as I was growing up?  Mom always reminded us the value of praying. Important for us to hear mass every Sunday.

(g)    What conflicts or tension points existed in our home and how were they resolved (if at all)?  There were a lot of tensions in my family growing up—Dad entering politics, Dad's infidelity, Lolo's infidelity, Dad and Mom's sickness, Lola's sickness… how were they resolved? I guess patience, resilience, good communication, trust, hope and prayers. My life was not an easy path—I can write a novel about what I've gone through growing up, come up with a tele novela at that—but one thing I realized is that as long as you believe that people will change, and as long as you trust in LOVE and CARE, then any family squabbles and tension points can be resolved.. not quickly, but in God's own time.

(h)   What were the characteristics and habits in my family that saw us through hard times? Not so much habits, I guess—my Mom's religiosity and her trust in the Lord—and how she emulates that to us—somehow allowed us to be more open, to be more forgiving of each other—that in the end.. no one gets left behind.


V.           My Family and I


(a)    What do I observe in myself that I also see in my parents and other relatives (e.g., career choice, personal characteristics, choice of spouse/relationships, patterns of coping, patterns of relating, pathologies, etc.)? Since majority of my relatives are professional, and Dad and Lolo had influence regarding law—hence I took up law and decided to make it my profession. Since I grew up in a family where infidelity is quite common, I had difficulty trusting people. Since my Mom is a very religious person, I noticed that her manner of coping with problems and anxiety resonated to me—so I always do turn to the Lord if I feel like giving up.

(b)   What patterns, both healthy and unhealthy, do I see in my family?  Unhealthy patterns are broken marriages, and commitment issues. Also, aunts and aunties from father side have been quite judgmental towards us—backstabbing borne out of jealousy, I suppose. Healthy patterns are leadership, passion and dedication to hone our craft, and entrepreneurial skills.

(c)    What myths do I continue to perpetuate? That when you see a butterfly or moth—your dead relative is visiting you? Is this a myth?

(d)   How has my being part of my family shaped the person that I am today? It shaped me to be a strong leader to my family and to my work place. I am not afraid to make calculated decisions, and I own up to my faults not by simply admitting them, but most importantly, working on ways to resolve the issue and finding workable solutions to make sure that said mistakes do not happen again. I've learned not only to be a troubleshooter, but more importantly, a reasonable/level-headed proactive thought leader.

(e)   What are the strengths of my family to which I significantly contribute? I want to believe that I am that—a sensible, level-headed proactive thought leader.


VI.         As a Leader


(f)     How has my family background and history shaped me as a leader? I am not afraid to make calculated decisions, and I own up to my faults and work on ways to resolve the issue and find solutions to make sure that said mistakes do not happen again. I've learned not only to be a troubleshooter, but more importantly, a reasonable/level-headed proactive thought leader.

(a)    How much of how I have been shaped by my family reflective of my own leadership style and habits, i.e. dealing with people, opportunities, stress, conflicts Since I grew up in a political family, all my life I felt as though I'm being watched… so Dad always taught us to be self-aware… not so much hide our flaws or highlight our strengths—but to learn to improve on the weaknesses because, as he says, that's always what people will criticize about us. In dealing with conflict, in our family (at least with my Mom and Dad—excluding my Lolo)—it was never Martial Law… everyone had/has the right to explain his or her side. So, we learned to be diplomatic, to be good advocators, and good listeners--- I was always the mediator. So, this helped me to harness the skill of diplomacy not only in the family but in the work place. Since Dad and Mom allowed us to make our own decisions—we were not afraid to take risks, and grab opportunities by the horn! Sometimes, we make stupid risks—but well--- mistakes do build character. Made us stronger, and wiser in the long run.


VII.        Insights


(a)    What did I realize from this activity? I realized that the atmosphere that we grew up, really does mold us to who we are, and to who we want to be in the future. The decisions we make are also affected by our own biases and experience in our family.

(b)   How do I feel about these insights? I feel that these are all true to my case. However, I must say not all bad experiences can turn children to bad grown-ups Some experiences that hurt us, or make us feel alone, can still make us be better—it just depends on how we view things. For example, Lolo's toughness to us, his eccentricities, perfectionist tendencies, and his strings of mistresses and infidelity—could have broken us as a family—but for some reason, my siblings and I were able to "convert" those negativity to something positive—we did well in school, we are trying to be good mothers and wives (and try so hard to keep our own families whole), we try not to pressure our children in school and let them enjoy life, we give without expecting something in return.

(c)    How do I want to proceed from these realizations? I want to be able to cut the negative attitude/habits for my family and learn from may parents'/grandparents' mistakes. I want to be a better mother to my children, as I don't want them to feel the pain that I had to go through dealing with uncertainties in money (because my Dad was in politics), philandering ways, depressed mother and Lola, etc. I want to give them a stable life, financially and emotionally. I didn't want also to depend on my parents or Lolo for support for my children's education and other needs. I learned my lesson with Lolo. The culture of financial dependency to the "elders" should be cut for my family.

(d)   What course of action shall I undertake? My life is an "WIP"—always a work in process. As long as I can have those quiet moments where I can reflect and look at my life from an "indifferent" person's point of view—clear my thoughts from my own prejudices and biases---I strive to be able to do a self-assessment once in a while. I want to be able to weed out bad traits and cultivate the strong ones.


Again, I'm not saying this is an overnight thing—it took my Dad more than 3 decades, 3 major strokes, and 1 heart attack to realize how, for example, his infidelity has affected us emotionally and financially—but well, yeah everyone is an WIP—and as Dad jokingly says he is a PWD—not person with disability, but PWD ("Pwi-D") pa… pwede pa magbago, and go back to the family he loves.


Leadership to me, started at home, and it will circle back there as well. In my family, we may go our own separate ways, some may go astray—but we always see to it that we go back—and fight (both external and internal hindrances)—so that, in the end, nobody gets left behind. That is raw leadership to me. VG 4




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